Divorced or separated parents in California may look at the summer vacation months as additional challenges when it comes to their co-parenting relationships. While working with a former spouse can be a tough thing at any time, the routine and structure provided by the school year can simplify things in some ways. With the unstructured days of summer can come greater chance for conflict. How can parents prevent this?
Our Family Wizard suggests that parents remember one of the cardinal rules of co-parenting and that is to not compete with each other. This is perhaps one of the central tenets of working collaboratively with a former spouse for the good of the kids and it holds true during summer vacation as well as the rest of the year. Part of how people can do this is to respectfully plan ahead and communicate their vacation and other wishes to each other positively. This gives each parent appropriate time to make plans for their time with the kids.
Coparently also indicates that getting the input of the children when it comes to summer activities whether that be a vacation or a camp may help them as well. Especially older children may need to have some level of ownership in what they are doing over summer.
Because many summer activiites for kids involve costs out of the ordinary, parents are encouraged to discuss their budgets for camps and more ahead of time to prevent last-minute issues that then negatively impact the kids and their expected summer plans.
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